By Dinesh Nath

I got this in mail from one friend working for an IT company. I wonder that's how they fix the things.............??? :):)

Roman philosopher said this some thousand years ago and still it is true for us. Mistake 1: Assuming that personal gain is obtained by crushing others. Mistake 2: To keep on worrying about things that cannot be changed or corrected. Mistake 3: Insisting that a thing is impossible because you cannot accomplish it. Mistake 4: Refusing to set aside trivial preferences. Mistake 5: Neglecting development and refinement of mind. Mistake 6: Attempting to compel others to believe and live as we do.

I feared being alone Until I learned to like Myself. I feared failure Until I realized that I only Fail when I don't try. I feared success Until I realized that I had to try in order to be happy with myself. I feared people's opinions Until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway. I feared rejection Until I learned to have faith in myself. I feared pain Until I learned that it's necessary for growth. I feared the truth Until I saw the ugliness in lies. I feared life Until I experienced its beauty. I feared death Until I realized that it's not an end, but a beginning. I feared my destiny, Until I realized that I had the power to change my life. I feared hate Until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance. I feared love Until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days. I feared ridicule Until I learned how to laugh at myself. I feared growing old Until I realized that I gained wisdom every day. I feared the future Until I

The great sin....Gossip. The great crippler....Fear. The greatest mistake....Giving up. The most satisfying experience....Doing your Duty First. The best action..Keep the Mind Clear and the Judgment Good. The greatest blessing..Good Health. The biggest fool....The Man who lies to Himself. The Most certain thing in life....Change. The greatest joy...Being Needed. The cleverest man....The one who Does What He Thinks Is Right. The most potent force...Positive Thinking. The greatest opportunity...The Next one. The greatest thought....GOD. The greatest victory....Victory Over Self. The best play.....Successful Work. The greatest handicap....Egoism. The most expensive indulgence...HATE. The most dangerous man....The Lair. The most ridiculous trait...False Pride. The greatest loss....Loss of Self Confidence. The greatest need...Common SENSE.

Lack of idealism is the main cause of depression among the youth today. Life appears to be so meaningless to these children, who are either too scared of the competitive world or bogged down by heavy stimuli. They need an inspiration....And Spirituality is that inspiration that can keep the spirit up! Aggression is the antidote to depression.Depression sets in if there is a lack of zeal to fight. Depression is lack of energy, and anger and aggression are a bolt of energy.When Arjuna was depressed, Krishna inspired him to fight and thus reinstated life back in Arjuna. If you are depressed, don't take Prozac - just fight - for any cause! If aggression crosses a certain limit it leads you back into depression. That's what happened with King Ashoka, who won the Kalinga war but became depressed. He had to take refuge in Buddha. WISE ARE THOSE WHO DO NOT FALL EITHER INTO AGGRESSION OR DEPRESSION. That's the golden line of a Yogi.Just wake up and acknowledge you are a Yogi! Jai