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Achieving Quality Living

If we look around in history also in life around us, there are people who have created history or who are creating history. These are handful of people which you count on fingers while other part of population seems mere existing on the this planet rather than living the life. Just look closely any inspiring figure whether a social workers, reformers, spiritual leaders or Business Tycoons you can take any name say it Martin Luther king or Mother Teresa, or Sri Sri Ravi Shankar or Swami Vivekananda, Bill Gates, Henry Ford All these people have same number of minutes in a day as we have. Then why these people able to deliver much more than we do? What make them different from other people. Now this is a wider issue. I am catching one thread of discussion in this post.


If you realize in life we do kind of actions one which are life supporting and other are life degrading. Life supporting actions help us to move forward life life degrading actions bind our legs and put us back. And not doing those things which we supposed to do doesn't hurt us how much we suffer from doing the things which we don't supposed to do. Wrong actions come with consequences which takes a huge amount of time and energy to clear it up and come to the ground zero again. Whether these are wrong habits, wrong patterns or wrong decisions.

Sri Sri rightly says, "people spend half of the health to gain the wealth and then spend half of the wealth to gain back health." Not a wise things to do. Same is the case with most of refreshment and entertainment means in society like alcohol, smoking or explicit sex, too much of movies or drugs; all of them come with huge toll on the nervous system. Momentary excitement of senses doesn't give a bliss, yet once mind is trapped in the habit to enjoy these excitements; not doing these things causes huge pain: that's the bondage where most of population has stuck and then there is huge fight to come back to our ground zero state. Similar is the case when we ruin our relationship with somebody and then it become a hassle to recover it. Everybody want good relations with all yet some where we screw it up and then it take so much of efforts to put it back on track and sometime even life time doesn't suffice to recover few issues. So watch carefully next time you choose your words or actions or decision and remember a fact not doing those things which we supposed to do doesn't hurt us how much we suffer from doing the things which we don't supposed to do.

Slowly when we drop the things which we don't supposed to do, life become much more peaceful and expression of success all around.

All Glory to Gurudev
Dinesh

Comments

Aparna(Apu) said…
amazing post Dinesh ji! :)
Pooja said…
As Yogavasthistha says - choosing a right direction or a probabillity enhances and ascertain chances of having a contented life.

JGD
Pooja
Marie Yang said…
Wonderful... I was feeling so bad today... I loved this post. Jai guru dev...
Unknown said…
Dineshji,this is wonderful. And I will say you made my day today, as I were feeling bad today.
Ruth said…
Disesh, I think I am missing something, not doing does not hurt us? Definately the essence of not doing is what my whole life is based on; perhaps this is a good thing when the not doing is meditation. "not doing those things which we supposed to do doesn't hurt us -how much we suffer from doing the things which we don't supposed to do."
Dinesh Nath said…
Ruth!

the lesson about doing things which we don't supposed to do hurt us more in term that once we do such things not only that time we are going down but also they come with the consequences which are counter life supporting. For example say drinking alcohol is not only spoiling us at that time but also the after effect on the nervous system and time lost while in hang over is also a lose and coming back to ground zero again take some time and energy.

so take anything which binds us as habit then it takes time and energy to recover back from those things to mover forward. I hope this make some sense.

Love
Dinesh

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